Rope Bondage

This past Saturday night was the birthday party for one of the local Doms in the scene and one whom I truly count as a friend. Being that it was a bunch of kinksters throwing the party for him, it naturally was also a play party. And man did we play!

This experience is notable for the fact that the house where the party was held has a smallish outbuilding in the back yard that the owners have converted into a play room complete with rigging equipment. So of course the theme of the night was bondage, although I must say some very impressive spanking and flogging also occurred, since the birthday Dom’s sub had to take every one of the Dom’s birthday spankings. :D

But I digress. Bondage was the theme of the night. My interest in rope bondage has been piqued for a while, but not having any opportunities to try it, I simply held that interest in check until such an opportunity arose. Well, one arose that night.

M told me later that the Dom in charge of the rope rigging had been eyeing me for a good portion of the night, I think because I had expressed some interest in the process. So finally M stood me up (by tricking me into thinking I was just standing up to hug him, I might add) and after some playful struggle, rope was applied.

It was quick. It was simple. We’re not talking any breathtaking masterpiece of shibari or anything. But it was fun. Being able to wiggle only my fingers since my arms were bound to my sides and my wrists were bound to each other – it was a kind of simple playfulness. The rigging Dom and M then laid me back and bound my ankles to a spreader bar, and then hooked the bar up to a ringbolt high up on the wall. That was fun, just kind of swaying my lower body back and forth.

At that point they began to untie me, which was kind of disappointing because I was enjoying myself! They could have done more and I would have been happy with it. There will always be next time, though. And I definitely want there to be a next time, because I really enjoyed myself. Rope bondage is definitely a fetish I could get into!